They say it’s better to have loved and lost
But I’m not sure that I agree
They say its worth it no matter the cost
But the heartache is hardly easy
The say that love finds you when you least expect it
But all I ever find is more pain
They say that you’ll be stronger the you’ve been rejected
But I think that’s a rather dumb saying
They say that dating is like riding a bike
But they’ve not asked the length of my drought
They say that it’ll be easy once I find someone I like
But they don’t know what they’re talking about
The say that there’s plenty more fish in the sea
But I want the one that got away
They say there’s a perfect catch just waiting for me
But I find it hard to believe what they say
They say all you have to do is just be yourself
But I’m pretty sure that’s been the issue
They say if you’re confident you’re sure to excel
But that’s no good when my social angst continues
They say love comes to those who can patiently wait
But I’m losing patience, with these tired platitudes
They say that everyone has their very own soul mate
But mines is tardy, which I find rather rude
They say far too much and it’s bringing me down
But I know it comes from a good place
They say it with love to help rid me of my frown
But I wish love wasn’t so hard to chase
Cameron D Hamilton 12/06/2016
Ah love…a slippery rascal it is. Wonderful poem, C, as always. And yes, people speak from a good place, but no one can foresee your future. And at the same time, sometimes they can see our situation more clearly than we can because we’re mired in it. You just keep being your awesome self and you’ll attract those you are meant to have in your life. ❤ Hopefully, that was neutral enough yet positive support? 😉
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Awww why thank you my dear, oh so very kind!
That’s the goal of life embrace yourself and the ones who matter will appear. Sometimes I feel the platitude of love is to end a conversation. It’s meant to close everything off as whomever your speaking too doesn’t really care. At this same time they can be comforting to some. I personally don’t feel like the particularly help but when they come from someone who genuinely cares it’s hard not to be touched.
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I hear yah. 🙂 That can bother me, too. I’m a realist and am not a fan of sugar coating or tying bows around things that are messy because it’s more convenient. Hugs and love your way. ❤
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As am I, sure I love some glitter and a good ribbon but never to hide behind. I shall definitely that the hugs and love!! 💜
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Thank God for our new and improved bachelor posters. It scans women for faults and sets on fire the ones that are found lacking.
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…does the poster set on fire or does it set the ‘faulty women’ on fire 😄
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Which would you prefer? 😉
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…I want it to be the poster and I want it to do different colours sometimes it’s blue or purple or green. Would make it more fun.
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Maybe even add sparklers
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Sparklers are always fun but it seems like more of a reward. The fire should be cool but it only flames on if the viewer isn’t worthy.
Of course we could use the Sparklers if your a winner 😄
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Yes! And a marching band to escort her to your location!
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Oh no no, gotta save the marching band for the first airport pickup. It’s way more dramatic!
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Cantina!!!
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😕?
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Dude…hanging my head in shame. You should know this!
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…as in cantina band star wars?
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Bingo
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…Hmmm, I was thinking something more in the way or drummers and bagpipes but aliens might work too!
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Finding love is disillusioning, isn’t it. I’ve given up on all that soul mate stuff. Call me cynical, but I think if you just like someone and can share space in a living environment together without killing each, it constitutes as love
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It really is!
I’m not even quite sure what I’m looking for or if it even exists. I’ll keep plodding along though seeing what I can find I’d just rather not hear all the faux positivity from a platitude.
I shan’t give up but I feel that if I’m putting in a lot of effort maybe they should try some too 😄
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